To be a /an anal slut, tips and tricks
This is just one of my favorite topics! Anal play. I am a real anal slut. Guess you understood that by reading yesterdays story .
I just love that penetration feeling.
I also love to wear butt plugs and I never get enough of them. Love to have that sexy feeling every place I am. Family dinners, work, the shop, night clubs , no place not to wear it.
A butt plug is one of the best gifts I can Get. I guess you saw my new putt plug in yesterday’s story?
I have gotten some gift through the years, and I see no problem for it. I do give gifts back. Pictures, films for example. These can be used for personal use or on a profile or what the person like to use it for.
But enough of that...
Anal, Training, convincing, play, rinsing and so on. Wanna get my tips....you get them here, and if you have tips or something else do leave a comment or send me a message.
Some one loves anal and some hate it. Someone is unsure about it and some do not even admit they have the thought about it. No one know if anal play is something for them before they try. There is some thing you need to be prepared for.
1: LUBE
It is very important to lube up. Your butthole do not lubricate as the pussy does.
Use quality lube. Water based, it is easy to applying, but important now is that you need to refill it a bit more often than oil/silicon lube. Oil or silicon based lube is best for the butt hole.You can get different lubes, warm ,relaxing ingredients, cooling effect.
You can have water based, oil based, butter based, powder based, gel and organic. So many different to try. Find the one who fits you and you partner, but do not go in dry!
2: TOYS
There is a lot of anal toys out there.
1: Fingers, start with one and slowly increase amount. Be aware of the nails. To wear gloves can help you against bacteria and scratches.
2: Butt plugs: Glass, silicon and metal. There are different shapes. For short time use and long time use. The butt plug with round part outside, is more a short time plug. It’s is a beautiful jewelry. The one who is oval, is better for longtime use. You can use different colors, with or without diamonds, patterns, sign and so on. You can even have different tales. I have a bunny tale , playboy bunny tale.
I want the fox tale(pic under). Would look so cool to wear in public with short skirt...like this.
Some butt plugs have long shaft and others short. The one with long shaft can easily work the prostate for men and g-spot for woman. The one with the short shaft, work more with the muscles.
You also have the vibrating butt plugs. It is a good feeling. But be aware of the sound. Those who are more quiet, you can play more in public. Imagine, to give the control device to you partner when you are out shopping or just on a cafe visit. Fun game, absolutely worth trying. Some butt plugs are strait, some are bent. The bent one, do more often touch prostate and g-spot.
Some butt plugs are made for preparation. Like the one on the photo.
3:Anal beads: Silicon, glass, metal. Some beads is hanging on a thread, some is stuck on each other. There is different sizes and length. There is also different weight.
These toys stimulates the body`s most sensitive area. If you pull out the beads under an orgasm ,you will have an especially lovely feeling. The anal beads fits both men and women, and the results is the same, reinforced feeling under orgasm. TIPS: If you have partner that is unsure of anal play, talk about anal beads. To use them under sex, start with pull out under orgasm, nothing more. It is an easy way in to anal play.
4: Prostate toys. Also here you have a lot to choose from. Some have vibration other have not. Some are curvy other strait, some are vide and some small. Try different things, find the one that fits the best, and touches your prostate. (TIPS: How to find you prostate on men and G-spot on woman will come later here on the blog , amongst tips and pic.)
5:Dildo. About dildo... You can use the same as you use in pussy. (but clean it carefully) Here women have an advantage. The anal AND pussy , the 2 in one. Or even better, the one with clit/ anal and pussy... heaven ....
3: BUTTCHEEKS
Even if the butthole is the ultimate goal, it does not mean you should totally ghost your partners butt cheeks. To start with a sensual butt cheeks massage, is often the start of anal play. Here is one example: (use lube even now) place your thumbs in the creases where the legs meet the butt heels and glide your thumbs along crease from the inner thigh area to the out side. Lift and repeat. Then you put your palms together in a “praying” position. Placing them on their tailbone, and gliding up and down their butt crack.
cuddle, bite, and generally give the butt cheeks attention.
4: PREPARATION
For a positive experience , the preparation is very important. I have written a bit on this under the post "tips and tricks".
Give your partner time to rinse. Go with butt plug a bit before the playing. Talk about it together.
It can be clever to have towels, tissue or other things to use if there is an "accident". This will happen time to time, and when it does, be natural about it.
Different equipment for the clean and hygenic feeling: Anal shower or Anal douche
5: SAFETY, HEALT AND PROTECTION
Important: Make the toys clean after use.. Wash with ordinary soap. Use disinfection after. Use the one for hand/body(this one have some additives that is not the best for toys) use the disinfection for equipment. Rinse with warm water when the disinfection has dry in.
There is a rich area of blood supply on the anal area, or the back door as someone calls it. The layer of skin, tissue is relative thin. Unlike the vagina, that is protected by PH and bacteria, the anal part is ONLY protected by its closed opening.
If you are planning to switch from anal to vagina... Switch and use condoms. If you use toys or cock. Wash you hands if you use finger, or use gloves and switch them.
Having anal play can put you at a higher risk of anal leakage... tips.. train your anal muscles. Use Anal Kegel.
That feeling that you need to poop under anal sex/play is normal. And you will get more gassier than usual. And because your muscles are a bit loose after being so used, you may not be able to control the gusts of "wind". But , technically, you are not actually farting, but it is the body `s way to tell you some air got trapped inside during penetration. So let those quasi-farts fly free.
But after all this said.. If you get into Anal play, you will achieve a new level in sex life. The orgasm is quite different from dick og pussy orgasm. There is so much more you can do. And if you keep clean, start slow, communicate with partner, use lube and relax... And you will love it.
Start training, enjoy.. You will not regret it
If you have tips or tricks for me, feel free to say so. I am always eager to learn new things.
Xoxo
Hotwifeno
I just love that penetration feeling.
I also love to wear butt plugs and I never get enough of them. Love to have that sexy feeling every place I am. Family dinners, work, the shop, night clubs , no place not to wear it.
A butt plug is one of the best gifts I can Get. I guess you saw my new putt plug in yesterday’s story?
I have gotten some gift through the years, and I see no problem for it. I do give gifts back. Pictures, films for example. These can be used for personal use or on a profile or what the person like to use it for.
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But enough of that...
Anal, Training, convincing, play, rinsing and so on. Wanna get my tips....you get them here, and if you have tips or something else do leave a comment or send me a message.
Some one loves anal and some hate it. Someone is unsure about it and some do not even admit they have the thought about it. No one know if anal play is something for them before they try. There is some thing you need to be prepared for.
1: LUBE
It is very important to lube up. Your butthole do not lubricate as the pussy does.
Use quality lube. Water based, it is easy to applying, but important now is that you need to refill it a bit more often than oil/silicon lube. Oil or silicon based lube is best for the butt hole.You can get different lubes, warm ,relaxing ingredients, cooling effect.
You can have water based, oil based, butter based, powder based, gel and organic. So many different to try. Find the one who fits you and you partner, but do not go in dry!
 |
| lube from "lille frekke" web shop |
There is a lot of anal toys out there.
1: Fingers, start with one and slowly increase amount. Be aware of the nails. To wear gloves can help you against bacteria and scratches.
2: Butt plugs: Glass, silicon and metal. There are different shapes. For short time use and long time use. The butt plug with round part outside, is more a short time plug. It’s is a beautiful jewelry. The one who is oval, is better for longtime use. You can use different colors, with or without diamonds, patterns, sign and so on. You can even have different tales. I have a bunny tale , playboy bunny tale.
I want the fox tale(pic under). Would look so cool to wear in public with short skirt...like this.
 |
| pic from" Extreme restrain" web shop |
Some butt plugs have long shaft and others short. The one with long shaft can easily work the prostate for men and g-spot for woman. The one with the short shaft, work more with the muscles.
You also have the vibrating butt plugs. It is a good feeling. But be aware of the sound. Those who are more quiet, you can play more in public. Imagine, to give the control device to you partner when you are out shopping or just on a cafe visit. Fun game, absolutely worth trying. Some butt plugs are strait, some are bent. The bent one, do more often touch prostate and g-spot.
Some butt plugs are made for preparation. Like the one on the photo.
3:Anal beads: Silicon, glass, metal. Some beads is hanging on a thread, some is stuck on each other. There is different sizes and length. There is also different weight.
These toys stimulates the body`s most sensitive area. If you pull out the beads under an orgasm ,you will have an especially lovely feeling. The anal beads fits both men and women, and the results is the same, reinforced feeling under orgasm. TIPS: If you have partner that is unsure of anal play, talk about anal beads. To use them under sex, start with pull out under orgasm, nothing more. It is an easy way in to anal play.
| pic from web |
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| pic from web |
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| Pic fron "Lille frekke" web shop |
3: BUTTCHEEKS
Even if the butthole is the ultimate goal, it does not mean you should totally ghost your partners butt cheeks. To start with a sensual butt cheeks massage, is often the start of anal play. Here is one example: (use lube even now) place your thumbs in the creases where the legs meet the butt heels and glide your thumbs along crease from the inner thigh area to the out side. Lift and repeat. Then you put your palms together in a “praying” position. Placing them on their tailbone, and gliding up and down their butt crack.
cuddle, bite, and generally give the butt cheeks attention.
4: PREPARATION
For a positive experience , the preparation is very important. I have written a bit on this under the post "tips and tricks".
Give your partner time to rinse. Go with butt plug a bit before the playing. Talk about it together.
It can be clever to have towels, tissue or other things to use if there is an "accident". This will happen time to time, and when it does, be natural about it.
Different equipment for the clean and hygenic feeling: Anal shower or Anal douche
| pic from web |
5: SAFETY, HEALT AND PROTECTION
Important: Make the toys clean after use.. Wash with ordinary soap. Use disinfection after. Use the one for hand/body(this one have some additives that is not the best for toys) use the disinfection for equipment. Rinse with warm water when the disinfection has dry in.
There is a rich area of blood supply on the anal area, or the back door as someone calls it. The layer of skin, tissue is relative thin. Unlike the vagina, that is protected by PH and bacteria, the anal part is ONLY protected by its closed opening.
If you are planning to switch from anal to vagina... Switch and use condoms. If you use toys or cock. Wash you hands if you use finger, or use gloves and switch them.
Having anal play can put you at a higher risk of anal leakage... tips.. train your anal muscles. Use Anal Kegel.
That feeling that you need to poop under anal sex/play is normal. And you will get more gassier than usual. And because your muscles are a bit loose after being so used, you may not be able to control the gusts of "wind". But , technically, you are not actually farting, but it is the body `s way to tell you some air got trapped inside during penetration. So let those quasi-farts fly free.
But after all this said.. If you get into Anal play, you will achieve a new level in sex life. The orgasm is quite different from dick og pussy orgasm. There is so much more you can do. And if you keep clean, start slow, communicate with partner, use lube and relax... And you will love it.
Start training, enjoy.. You will not regret it
If you have tips or tricks for me, feel free to say so. I am always eager to learn new things.
Xoxo
Hotwifeno
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