Hotwife and cuckold relationships and our dictionary

If you look up what cuckold means, it will tell you "a man with unfaithful wife" 
But the cuckold is a place between swingers and infidelity. I do have sex with other men and girls, but always with the "approval" of my Cuckold. If I or he are unsure, have a bad period etc we always take consideration to each other. 

The difference between Swingers and Cuckold is that in swingers both parts play with others, in cuckold, like in my relationship, I play and have sex with others, and my cuckold is on the sideline when it comes to participation. But he is always with me in other ways. He help me get nice and ready, buy sexy outfits, scrub my body etc. He gets me Bulls, get hotel rooms, condoms...(always safety first ) He can join for a meeting, be there and suck my bulls ready, clean me up from cum. But other times he stays at home. When he stays at home (work, partys, out with friends etc) he may get some films, video chat or just a handful of cum when i get home. We are always two. Even if I`m alone.

A cuckold is a man who supports and accepts his wife infidelity, and he gets sexual turned on/exited by her actions. 

But like all other relationships there are different things we need to work on or with, like:

Pic is from web

All know how popular a porn movie is, and in many homes there is also very popular with home made porn vide. But for us... we have live porn. how sexy is that?

Pic from web

How strange it may seems, my Cuckold get turned on by the feeling of jealousy. This kind of jealousy sets in motion the primal instinct in men to conquer his wife back. His manhood is threatened. The more material/evidence he is exposed to (watching, feeling, hearing, seeing, smelling, tasting) the higher his excitement is. But be aware of the jealousy that comes if his wife, would go against him in a bad way. Thats the same jealousy that "normal" people will feel, and it is just devastating. Important: be honest, sincere and considerate to each others feeling and opinion.

Our body is driven by a adrenalin that is made by a certain kind of fear. In our "normal" lives my cuckold have a role thats contain lots of control. The cuckold is a man who voluntarily gives up his feeling of control, to feel free. To lose this feeling of control, can be very intimidated for a person. The fear can be the feeling of loosing his wife to another man, lover, bull. That see will be so "free" that she will do as she wants and not come back to him. He can fear  the unknown. This is why the trust is so important. 

To help new and "old" people in this life style. I made a small dictionary. If i forgot something feel free to comment it:)

Hotwife: A married woman (or also a woman in a relationship) who has the freedom in her marriage to pursue sexual relationships with other men

cuckold: A man who willingly encourages his wife to sleep with other people and it brings him pleasure. Cuckolds exist on a spectrum between two extremes. One on end is the masochistic cuckold  who enjoys humiliations, degradation, and other demeaning activities at the hands of his wife and her lover. The alpha cuckold lies at the opposite end of the spectrum and does not enjoy any form of humiliation and often has a direct say in who his wife sleeps with and when.

Bull: A sexually dominant male who have sex with the wife while humiliate the cuckold

Gang-bang: When multiple partners, usually 3 or more, engage in sexual intercourse with a single willing partner

Threesome:When a group of three people join together for sexual pleasure.

Bi : A person with significant attraction and desire for both sexes, both sexually and romantically

Bi-curious:Someone who has an intense interest in bi- sexuality, and/or suspects they may be bisexual, however does not classify themself as bisexual as of yet

Chastity belt: A device used to ensure that the wearer does not have sex, or, in some cases, have any form of sexual stimulation such as masturbation.

Orgasm denial: The act of not letting your partner release their orgasm, a sexual kink

Ruined orgasm: The kind of orgasm a guy has when his hands are tied out of the way and his penis is stimulated just until he can't stop anymore, and then let go. Neat to watch because of the way it bounces with each spurt. Embarrassing for the guy, especially if several girls are watching, and not really satisfying.

Swinging : Swinging, sometimes called wife swapping, husband swapping or partner swapping

Group sex: Group sex is sexual behavior involving more than two participants. Group sex can occur between people of all  and sexual orientations genders

Vixen: A wife or girlfriend in a committed relationship who seeks a male for sex with the permission of and usually in front of her  stag, husband or boyfriend, without any bi-sexual play or humiliation of her stag.

Stag: The male half of a relationship who allows and finds sexual gratification in allowing and even encouraging his female partner to have sex with other men. Not to be confused with the cuckold relationship where the male is typically weak and into humiliation. stags are dominant but want to share their women.

sissy: Male half of the cuckold couple is subservient and is open to being humiliated in some way. Sissy sometimes implies that the male partner is expected to dress in female clothing. The concept of being "sissified" might includ sucking the bull`s cock, clean up duties or even being anally fucked by the bull or Hotwife (pegging)    

submissive (sub): A person in BDSM who submits to a Dominant person. A submissive can be a slave and/or the bottom (the person being tied up or whipped, etc.).

Glory-hall: This is a room with many holes in the wall. In each hole a man can insert his penis, so that the person inside the glory-hall can choose to suck this dick, without knowing who it belongs too. The man who insert his penis does neither know who is sucki the dick at the moment.

Breeding: A rough style of sex where one ejaculates inside their partner for the purpose of getting them pregnant.

Raw: No condom, unprotected sex. No rubber

Cum-dump: cum-dump is a common term for a true slut. This kind of woman insists on having as many men cum in her mouth, pussy AND asshole as possible. She begs for it and insists that no rubbers be used. She enjoys being called and treated like a total whore

Cum play: when you cum somewhere that is not inside your partner and your partner plays with the cum. either licking it up or swirling their tongue around in it.

BBCBig Black Cock

BWCBig White Cock

QOS: Queen of spade is a Hotwife that love big black cocks the symbol is a spade 
(like on my nail)


Edging: Getting seconds away from climax and stopping, waiting for a few more seconds then start again, do this a few more times then you are meant to have a amazing long climax and you feel great

Humiliation: is consensual psychological humiliation performed in order to produce erotic excitement or sexual arousal. This can be for either the person(s) being humiliated and demeaned or the person(s) humiliating, or both. It is sometimes performed before spectators, including pornography and webcam viewers. It may be part ofBDSM and other sexual role-play, or accompanied by the sexual stimulation of the genitals (or other erotic region) of one or both parties in the activity.

Cum dumpster: A person who is addicted to being ejaculated in, typically females. Also see whore or slut

BDSM: An overlapping of Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS),sadism and masochism (SM).

Masochist: Adjective describing someone whose actions illustrate their desire to inflict pain and suffering upon themselves. 

Sadism: the obtaining of pleasure, sometimes sexual, from being cruel to or hurting another person

Bondage: Tying up or restraining your consenting sexual partner. 

Strap-on: A dildo that is used by women. It has a device so it can be "strapped" on her body

Slave: A guy who will do anything the female ask of him ,mostly  when it comes to her sexual desires . A slave can be registered at the web, and you get your own slave number. Then you really "belongs" to your partner

( The dictionary above is made by help from web site 1 and web site 2 )

Hope you like the info and it can help on the journey ahead. 



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